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Sunday, May 20, 2012

Guest Blogger: Jeff Rasley


Meaningful Memoir Writing 

Most writers have kept a journal or diary during some period in their lives.  I started a diary when I was 16.  After two weeks I quit and burned the document out of fear my parents might find it.  There was too much incriminating evidence, and my strict Midwestern, Presbyterian parents would not have allowed me to take the Fifth to avoid self-incrimination.  I didn't take up journal writing again until I became serious about writing adventure travel articles for publication.
Some of my travel experiences, I thought, had value for others and I wanted to share.  Creating a publishable piece required more than simply recording the experience.  For others to find meaning through reading about my experiences I had to recreate events, places and characters beyond the immediacy of the moment.  Eventually I had enough material and confidence to write a book.  My first book was a travel memoir with a purpose.  It offered the reader the wisdom I had gained from people who live in a remote village in the Nepal Himalayas. 
Creating an article or book worthy of publication meant going beyond mere biographical journaling.  If one is a person of historical or cultural interest, then autobiographical writing may be worthy of publication.  (No matter how poorly written, the Kim Kardashians of our celebrity-obsessed culture will find a publisher.)  But fortunately, or unfortunately, that eliminates 99 percent of the rest of us.  Journaling for one's own pleasure, or to pass on to family and heirs, of course has value.  And social media has created the opportunity to bore our friends by posting the quotidian details of our lives.
The personal essays, or memoirs with a purpose, I have been inspired to write are mostly about extreme experiences such as Himalayan mountain climbing or solo sea-kayaking.  I have learned, or had reinforced, great lessons about life from these adventures.  For example, I was inspired to write about the strength and beauty of the human spirit and the willingness to be self-sacrificial after witnessing a Nepalese guide and porter risk their lives to save and care for others who had been trapped by an avalanche.  
Other writers have found meaning worthy of publication in more mundane experiences.  My sister-in-law, Cherri Megasko, writes for the Yahoo Contributor Network.  She uses personal experiences to write about topics of interest to homeowners, parents and a general readership.  For example, her article entitled "Groundhog Wars" is a delightfully humorous essay about the different approaches her and a neighbor applied to dealing with a resident groundhog.  Its wider application for animal lovers is how to deal with what some consider pests and others consider lovable critters.
Essential to making a memoir interesting and worthy of publication is to have a central theme that carries the narrative forward.  Without a thematic narrative, we are back to mere observation or a random collection of insights without a guiding light.  In other words, the piece should make a point.
The narrative must include factual details to make it interesting.  Without interesting, quirky or astonishing factual details, a personal essay is BORING.  A point made in the abstract is likely to be forgotten as soon as the magazine or book is closed or the reading device turned off.
As to publication, well, much has changed in the last decade.  When I first began writing for publication in the 1980s, I would go to my neighborhood library and page through Writers' Market looking for the magazines or journals interested in publishing the type of article I had written.  Now, the neighborhood library has probably closed.  Information about publishers is online, but many print publishers have ceased to exist or been downsized.  The advent of the digital age and online publishing has created vastly more opportunities for publication than ever before.  And I don't subscribe to the view that quantity has reduced quality.  Great writing still happens and is more accessible.  But there are fewer traditional publishers of successful magazines and books.
One significant consequence for writers of the traditional publishing industry's decrepitude is that pay is harder to come by.  For several decades a writer could expect to be paid from $100 to $2,500, depending on the periodical's prestige and circulation, for a feature length article.  And there were multiple publication possibilities for many different categories of articles.  While the multiplicity of online publications (especially blogs) has vastly increased the possibility of publication, the possibilities for remuneration seem to be much reduced.  Writing for "content farms" or guest blogging (thanks Stacy!) did not exist as opportunities in pre-digital history.  Unfortunately, the writing is often done gratis (d***!). 

Website: www.jeffreyrasley.com
Rasley's most recent book is ~ 
MONSTERS OF THE MIDWAY:  The Worst Team in College Football?
The book may be purchased at http://tinyurl.com/monstersofthemidway

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Guest Blogger: Randall McNeely


Title: Nine Words That Changed My Life
When I was 14, I suffered from an acute case of low self-esteem and, therefore, I wasn’t always the most enjoyable person to be around. You can imagine, then, my utter surprise when my classmates elected me to be our class representative to the student council. I was dumbfounded.
One of my first assignments was to type up an agenda for the upcoming meeting. When the day for the meeting came, I arrived early to place an agenda on each desk. As I was doing so, Wendy Johnson (name changed), a very pretty, very popular cheerleader walked in. I liked Wendy. She was genuine and nice to everyone. That was a big reason for her popularity. 
As she always did, Wendy said “hi,” and asked me how things were going. I’m sure I responded but I don’t remember how.  She then picked up an agenda and looked it over. 
“Did you know that you misspelled the word ‘miscellaneous’?” she asked. 
I looked at the paper and she was right. I could have died.
“Boy, I guess you think I’m pretty stupid, huh?” I replied.
“Oh no I don’t, I think you’re pretty neat!”
Can you imagine the healing balm those wonderful words were for my insecure soul? I felt is if I could fly with the eagles!
Tears were very near the surface, and being the “manly” teenager that I was, I couldn’t let Wendy see me cry so I uttered a quick “thank you,” mumbled something about going to the bathroom, and raced out of the room.
To this day, that simple act of kindness still affects me. It was a turning point in my life.  Whenever I think of it, I cannot help but smile, both inside, and out.

Monday, May 14, 2012

Guest Blogger: Lisa Orchard, Author of "The Super Spies and the Cat Lady Killer"


Author, Lisa Orchard
Hello Everyone! My name is Lisa Orchard and I’m a Young Adult Author. My book “The Super Spies and the Cat Lady Killer” was just released in March and the sequel will be available sometime late this summer.  I want to thank Stacy for allowing me to guest blog today. It’s my second stop on my blog tour. 

People often ask me where I got the idea for my book “The Super Spies and the Cat Lady Killer” and I have to say I got it from my own teenage exploits.  I grew up in a sleepy little town where there was very little crime and people slept with their doors unlocked. I don’t think they do that today, but it was a wonderful atmosphere to grow up in. I had a lot of freedom to let my imagination run wild. And it did!

My friends and I were avid Nancy Drew fans! That’s where I got the idea to form my own detective squad. We didn’t investigate a murder but we did try to solve the case of the vandalized Japanese Teahouse. 

It was one summer when our neighbors had just returned from vacation when they found their Japanese Teahouse destroyed. We were on the case! We searched for clues and questioned potential witnesses, but the case remains unsolved to this day. Now, that was a long time ago… (embarrassed grin), but that is one of my fondest memories of my childhood.  

I wanted to bring that same feeling of anticipation to the young people of today. So, check out my book and let me know if I accomplished my goal, and thanks for stopping by. Don’t forget to leave a comment! One of you will be the lucky winner of the e-book version of “The Super Spies and the Cat Lady Killer”!

Find this book at:


This book opens in a small town in Michigan where fifteen-year-old Sarah Cole is stuck spending the summer at her Aunt and Uncle’s with her sister, Lacey. She’s not happy with the situation until she befriends a girl named Jackie. The three girls stumble upon the ruthless murder of a reclusive neighborhood woman. One of the officers investigating the crime believes the girls are responsible for her death. Fearing that this officer will frame them for the murder, the girls organize their own detective squad. They become the Super Spies and start their own fact-finding mission.  The Super Spies can’t understand why anyone would want to murder the “Cat Lady” until they start digging into her past and discover a horrible crime that happened thirty years ago. They uncover a connection between the two crimes and attempt to bring this information to the police, only to be reprimanded for meddling in the inquest. Not only are the girls upset by the admonition, but they also struggle with the fact that their exuberant investigating could provide a legal loophole allowing the killer to go free. To make matters worse, the police don’t even believe them. Frustrated by this turn of events, the Super Spies realize it’s up to them to snare the Cat Lady killer, or die trying…

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Persistence

You only fail when you stop trying.

How often do we hear, "You can't do that," or "That won't work," or "It's not possible,"? When we hear these negative phrases, our only response should be, "Why not?"

Life is never as black or white as it seems. There are always shades of gray. Sometimes, we need to throw a little color into the scenario. When situations seem impossible, find a way to make them possible. Succeeding often involves doing something different or going against the grain. But, we won't know what's possible if we don't try.

Don't let anyone or anything hold you back from making your dreams come true, including yourself. If you have the will, you can find a way. And you might fail. You might fall. You might feel defeated. When those moments of despair hit, pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and try again. Thomas Edison once said, "I didn't fail 1,000 times. I just found 999 ways how NOT to make a lightbulb."

If you put forth the effort and look for those windows of opportunity, you'll be amazed at what you can accomplish. The secret is to never give up. The minute you give up, you've failed.

Persistence

Monday, April 16, 2012

Enjoy Today...Before It Slips Away

It's official! My short, inspirational (Mother's Day) gift book is now available through SayThisWrite.com, saythiswrite.blogspot.com, SayThisWriteBookStore and Amazon.com. "Enjoy Today...Before It Slips Away" will make a great gift, not only for mothers, but for girls of every age. Although the publication date will read, "April 16, 2012," this book was officially available to the public on Sun., Apr. 15, which was my late mother's birthday. So, it made this book launch that much sweeter!  I invite you to check out this endearing book for yourself, or share with someone you love.

Monday, March 26, 2012

Guard Your Integrity

Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody is watching.

Everyday we are faced with situations that challenge our integrity in one way or another. For some, it might be a struggle to find the courage to stand up for what's right. For others, facing adversity might not be challenging at all.

It's easy to make the right choice when we know people are watching. But, are we as quick to make good choices, be honest, or stand up for what's right when no one is around? Do we guard our integrity no matter what the cost?

Integrity defines our character. It's a value we should all be striving daily to develop and strengthen. If we let it fall by the wayside, thinking no one will notice, we are failing ourselves. It's not always easy, but the more we practice doing the right thing, the easier it will become. Anytime we want to incorporate a talent or character trait as part of who we are, it takes practice. Integrity is no exception.

Make sure your integrity is in tact no matter what situation you find yourself in. There is always someone watching, even when you think you're alone. Let your actions make a statement about who you are. It might even help eliminate stress. After all, if you're honest, you don't have to rely so much on your memory.

Integrity

Friday, March 23, 2012

Be Your Own You

Be yourself. An original is always worth more than a copy.

We will interact with many people throughout our lives who will influence us in different ways. Some might have a physique we envy, a style we want to adopt, or a talent we want to copy. But if we spend our time copying the lives of others, who will we become?

Although we all have someone we admire, today focus on who you are. What makes you unique? What separates you from the crowd? There are great things about each one of us that we need to take pride in. We need to spend more time saying, "I am proud to be me." And if this phrase doesn't roll off your tongue, you've got some practicing to do!

If you are someone who has a difficult time thinking positively about yourself, enlist the help of a spouse, close friend or family member. People who know and love you are sure to have a list of great and wonderful things to say about you. Just be sure to listen and say "Thank you," when they are done. Don't counteract the positives by disagreeing with them!

Once you have your list of positive features, put it someplace you will see it. Read it out loud. Read it often. If you think of more features, talents, or personality traits, add them to your list. If you receive a compliment, add it to the list. If you learn something new, add it to the list. You can even add one or two things you'd like to improve.

It's good to know what makes you YOU. It's even better to like what makes you YOU! Be proud of who you are. Own who you are. Emphasize your positives and work on the negatives until they become positives. Just make sure who you are is YOU. An original is always worth more than a copy.

Be Yourself